Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

• Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

We - continued generation "suffers". So grandmother taught our mothers, and mothers in the appropriate spirit brought us. Although we have a generation that has had time to sip a breath of freedom.

If we are between two fires. Therefore, the easiest to pretend to be weak, to hide under the table, and free yourself from unnecessary responsibilities. That is why most modern women in relationships with men are choosing the victim's position. Of course, not without the need to give yourself time by slabinku time.

Each of us is able to keep in their thin, fragile hands the whole world. It is an art - to be, on the one hand, vulnerable, tender and delicate, and on the other, to keep the wheel of your life.

This 13 cruel rules of life for the women of the well-known politician and writer Irina Khakamada. Plain truth hurts your eyes ...

1. Most importantly, once and for all into your minds: the prince on a white horse - this is pure fiction. No one is required to make you happy and be saved from all the vicissitudes of life. Over time, the man is simply tired of lugging a heavy suitcase that your whining and complaints about life. To avoid the sad fate of the abandoned suitcase, you should not concentrate on the search for the men, and on the implementation of its own dreams.

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

2. Samurai follow such a philosophical principles: to die in advance. How ironic would it may sound, in a deadly battle to win the samurai who is already dead. Just think over in detail the worst scenario situation that does not give you peace at this time. And imagine what will happen after that. Describe your steps after the defeat. And then, as in the movie, mentally scroll through the film to the first frame. One, two - and you are no longer afraid nothing. You can safely go to battle!

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

3. When people say to me, "Ira, you're a fool," I reply, "Yes, I agree." And she go and do what they want. I have driven on - I missed and went to do. Never proves nothing. No need to measure anything. Especially in the men's team. It is no good end.

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

4. In order to build a harmonious relationship with someone else, you must first find harmony with yourself and love yourself.

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

5. What should I do? I will tell you. Learn to dream, to set high goals and go for them. Thus obtain the buzz is not the final result, but the process. And if you manage to find and develop the power that will not require any more effort, everything will take shape by itself - and dreams, and careers, and love.

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

6. Female-rocket, that is the one that is carried forward, embodying their goals and dreams, intelligent man sure to appreciate. In this woman there is always something to solve. And it starts ...

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

7. A woman who is able to develop harmoniously combines the feminine and masculine, which uses all that is in the world for their self-realization, becomes a unique woman. This was, for example, Chanel. And if desired, this can be each. Tested on itself!

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

8. A man should not be all things to our world, but it has to be one of its parts, standing in the total number.

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

9. All the time learn, get new information. This insurance is the base that will help you survive in the most difficult time. Once in Oxford, I gave a lecture and met there with a girl from Russia. She went there, studying for a philologist. And while it is working in the most famous bank. She says: "You can not imagine what kind of an experience. Now I know how it! I never ever be lost. "

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

10. When meeting with a man must be able to speak clearly, and then turn into a fool. And suddenly it is important and very diplomatically to move from one state to another. Man immensely shy, he was always afraid of something. That woman is too rich or too poor, too beautiful, or vice versa. Therefore, you must become unpredictable, with ease and humor to build communion.

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

11. The money in achieving success in second place. It should be just enough money to realize their ideas. And so as not to wake up every day with the thought: God, I hate this job, but I'm going to die of hunger if I do not do it.

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

12. Do not be afraid of despair. Drop to the bottom. I was leaving the country, lay formation week, no one talked. I told myself that I was terrible, I was a loser, and stuff like that. I felt sorry for myself, and I even started to like being miserable. But at some point, the body is tired, and he says, but life goes on! I did not die, the sun is shining. All right! And you get up and go on.

Rules of Life Irina Khakamada

13. But the fate of a lion. If you are afraid, it will be on you to attack, and if this fear not, it will turn wherever you want.

Tips really sobering! How is it that difficult to be a woman, but the good advice that you were given at the right time can greatly facilitate this work.